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Allison Katz

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5/16/2011 11:30:00 AM

All Moms Deserve a Little "Mommy Time"

This week I am encouraging all of the moms out there to a Mom Time Challenge. What exactly does that mean? It means that we, as moms, work hard each and every day and deserve a little quality time for ourselves.

I know it can be hard to do sometimes, especially if you are a single mom, a mom to an infant, or a mom to multiple children; but I am one mom that feels having some ME time is extremely important. Luckily, my husband agrees (although I’m pretty sure he’d rather I be home making dinner than off with my girlfriends for dinner and a movie.)

It has definitely gotten easier for me this past year, but when my son was first born, I always felt extremely guilty leaving to go do something for myself. I work full time, so how could I possibly leave him again when I got home or on the weekends? Trying to balance work & family was so hard for me at the beginning, and it certainly still is, but we are trying to make the best of it. At the beginning, in order to do anything for myself I would wait until D was napping before I would leave to quickly get a manicure, pedicure, or hit the gym. Well let me tell you…times have changed. For me, it is extremely important to find quality ME time. Whether it’s a movie with friends, dinner and drinks with co-workers, a spa treatment, etc. (these are just some of my personal favorites), I believe this time alone not only helps me to be a better mom, but helps D learn independence as well.

So no matter what it is, we are challenging all the moms out there to take a well-deserved time out for themselves. Grab a coffee with friends, hit the beach, go shopping, get a manicure or pedicure (or both), treat yourself to a massage, a facial, a movie, lunch with your mom, or a class at the gym…whatever it is, enjoy! Just be sure to let us know what you did or what you do regularly to make time for yourself.

Tags: Give-A-Way, Motherhood, Tips, Contest

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Posted by:Ciara | 5/23/2011 | 3:26 PM |
:)

Posted by:Rachel D. | 5/23/2011 | 11:36 AM |
My last me time was getting a mani/pedi when I was 8.5 months preggo with my 2nd child. He's now 2.5 months old and I think I'm ready for another pedi at least! It'll happen one day, I just know it!

Posted by:Allison Katz | 5/23/2011 | 9:59 AM |
CONGRATULATIONS to Tonya, our Moments of Motherhood week 3 winner. It means a lot to have had so much participation in this challenge. I encourage all you moms (and dads) to keep it up!

Posted by:Chrissy B | 5/23/2011 | 12:34 AM |
I spend my ME time soaking in a warm bubble bath with a good book, glass of wine, followed by a nap. All the while the baby or the baby monitor is with my husband. Of which allows me to completely relax knowing that my son is being watched.

Posted by:Jill | 5/22/2011 | 10:29 PM |
I enjoy going to the local bookstore and grabbing a frozen coffee while I browse books. It's so relaxing, and I love the quiet!

Posted by:Tina Lopotosky | 5/22/2011 | 10:24 PM |
My mommy time is daddy daughter date night. Each month my husband pikks an activity and takes my daughter to dinner or something. Its wonderful. I can read a book or watch a mussy movie and I know she is in good hands as well as bonding wiith her daddy.

Posted by:Lori A. | 5/22/2011 | 9:58 PM |
I try to get together with a couple of girlfriends every few months and we get pedicures and have dinner. It is such a fun and relaxing time.

Posted by:matt0087 | 5/22/2011 | 8:40 PM |
I think taking time for yourself is very important, you need to take care of yourself in order to take care of your little ones well. I enjoy having a girls weekend with my friends every few months or so and running errands alone just to get away for awhile.

Posted by:Lisa | 5/22/2011 | 4:36 PM |
Just going for a long walk is enough to give me a clear head and relax a little bit!

Posted by:Saph | 5/22/2011 | 3:27 PM |
It's rare but I'll go hang out with the girls for some me time.

Posted by:Vanessa | 5/22/2011 | 2:12 PM |
Yesterday I took a day to myself. I slept in while hubby watched the kids, and I took a long shower, and then just relaxed. It was heavenly and very much so needed!

Posted by:ashley lindberg | 5/22/2011 | 2:02 PM |
I like to lock myself in my closet, turn the radio on and fold laundry. For some reason i find this to be relaxing.

Posted by:Heather Rivers | 5/22/2011 | 1:55 PM |
I am a single mom, so between work and my son there is never any time for ME!!So, every day I bring my little sister over for an hour and I lock myself in the bathroom and soak in the tub surrounded by candles and my favorite CD playing in the background. I may not actually leave but that hour each day is considered my own little escape.. =)

Posted by:melody l | 5/22/2011 | 12:06 PM |
Every Mom needs to take a little time for herself. If it is no more than 5 minutes to read,meditate or just eat a snack in peace. Making a little sanity time for yourself helps to make Mommy a better person for her little ones.

Posted by:Nikki M. | 5/22/2011 | 12:05 PM |
I wish I had some mommy time, daddy is a chef and works all the time and hasn't had a day off in 30 days so it's hard to find time for myself...let alone do things together as a family!

Posted by:Melissa | 5/22/2011 | 11:39 AM |
It is definitely hard to take Mom Time without feeling guilty. Having a husband that supports that endeavor does make it easier though. I try to take me time while the kids are at school too. Each week I meet a friend for lunch during my 2 hour child-free time. It is always so relaxing and refreshing!

Posted by:sharma gaskill | 5/22/2011 | 11:38 AM |
It can be difficult to get ME TIME, i myself moved to another town over 4 hours away from my family with my partner of nearly 9 years and nither of us drive so to get to them is a long train journey.. together we have 2 children and another on the way due in 5 weeks.
So to have a little time to myself my partner will take the childern out eother swimming, to the park or to a play centre so i can maybe catch up on some much needed sleep or even do that little bit of washing that has taken me a week to get to.. I wouldn't be without my little family but it's always good to have that bit of ME TIME just to remember who you are. :)

Posted by:The Trophy Wife | 5/21/2011 | 8:23 PM |
I have been taking a little ME time in the afternoons. I put Little Man to nap and I stretch out on my bed and read, watch a movie or take a little nap myself. It's a nice way to relax and enjoy the quiet without worrying about the dishes in the sink or the laundry in the basket.

Posted by:Carol Witherspoon | 5/21/2011 | 9:46 AM |
I like to make time for myself regularly, most of all, by meditating while listening to mantras. Doing this, as well as reading, listening to relaxing music, doing a massage or manicure are all part of my life and things I can't really give up while parenting. I think that the stress that would build up would only affect my child and me progressively; whilst being serene and accomplished at some things will do the opposite, bringing affirmation and an accomplished feeling to her life. In the end, it's all about balance. When that guilt comes up, let it go. It's irremediable to stop it from coming; since all moms will always think they can do better. But if you don't stretch the time for yourself, you won't be able to offer much, other than mechanically. Good luck!

Posted by:REBECCA NELSON | 5/20/2011 | 6:47 PM |
MY MOM ORGINALLY WATCHED MY CHILDREN WHILE I WORKED, BUT AFTER BABY #2 CAME IT WAS TOO MUCH FOR HER, SO NOW THEY GO TO A SITTER, THEY CAN STAY THERE TIL 6 AND I GET OFF WORK AT 4, SO I DO THE THINGS I NEVER HAD TIME FOR BEFORE, NAILS AND HAIR! I ALWAYS FELT BAD ASKING MY MOM, SO I NEVER DID IT BEFORE TIL NOW. 1 GREAT BENIFIT TO HAVING DAYCARE

Posted by:Sara Popp | 5/20/2011 | 4:59 PM |
I am a first time Mom-to-be. I spend "Me time" visiting with friends and I just made an appointment for my first ever prenatal massage. I know that once our little girl gets here things will be hectic so I am doing as much relaxing as I can right now!

Posted by:brittney | 5/20/2011 | 4:36 PM |
making time for yourself is hard when you have little ones! Everyday I try to take a short walk by myself, not for exercise but to clear my head regain patience and regain my sanity. Its not much but it works!

Posted by:Jessica Middlemas | 5/20/2011 | 3:37 PM |
I am a stay at home mom of a 3 year old and also I am currently pregnant. I am also currently going back to school to get my degree online, so I am pretty busy with trying to keep things in order. With that being said, I take a little time for my self to watch a little reality tv and unwind. I prop some pillows up on my bed, and kick back and catch up on my favorite shows. It really calms me down and gets me nice and relaxed for bed. :) I never get away, so I just wrap myseslf up with crazy shows and it helps.

Posted by:Tara S | 5/20/2011 | 1:18 AM |
I'm really glad I read this because I don't really do much ME time right now. My little one is 4 months old and I did just spend a couple hours at the spa two weeks ago but other than that, I rarely get away. I plan to try to get to the gym at least twice per week and that really is a relaxing time.

Posted by:Amanda Alvarado | 5/19/2011 | 9:22 PM |
I usually go shopping with my mom once a month. Sometimes it ends up stretching out to 2 months! LOL I wish I was able to do something once a week but with working 40 hrs outside the home, weekends are family time and cleaning time. I do retreat to the computer in the evenings when dd is either playing or in bed. Does that count?!?!

Posted by:shirley | 5/19/2011 | 6:52 PM |
The time, as the quality of the time is not so important that we dedicate ourselves.... and so can also provide you the quality of time our children, there that try to entertain us in things that we like and make us feel good and relax of the tasks of the home and the care of childrenI think that with some weekend that we have to this time for us small enough and so be able to once again share with all our beautiful family again as new

Posted by:mary cooper | 5/19/2011 | 5:29 PM |
find great college student sitters at www.mommymixer.com so you can have me time whenever needed!

Posted by:Kim C | 5/19/2011 | 3:50 PM |
I make it a point to always keep the kids on their early bedtime schedule so I can relax in bed at the end of the night with a good movie or reading blog posts.

Posted by:Sarah B. | 5/19/2011 | 3:09 PM |
Last night my friend and I left the kids with our husbands and went to the mall to walk around, eat ice cream, and talk. It was so nice not pushing a stroller and dragging kids into stores. It will definitely be done again!

Posted by:Lisa | 5/19/2011 | 2:46 PM |
I am just happy to get a hot shower :) My husband is very supportive and my babies are only 8 weeks old so I am not one to stray far from them yet!

Posted by:Amber E. | 5/19/2011 | 2:15 PM |
I take my me time by reading a novel. I always feel more relaxed when I can escape with a good book. Since moving out of state away from friends and family I rarely go anywhere without kids or hubby. But hubby is a very involved dad so I feel like I get me time every day!

Posted by:Sarah | 5/19/2011 | 1:28 PM |
I put the wee one to bed early so I can have mommy time in the evenings. Then I go biking :)

Posted by:Heather.H. | 5/19/2011 | 1:28 PM |
My "ME" time is one nigh a week. My mother comes ove after she gets out of work and takes my kids to her house for the night and brins them back in the morning. It is some much needed me time being a stay at home mom of 3:)

Posted by:Kristy M. | 5/19/2011 | 1:03 PM |
I am giving myself a time out & going on a womens church retreat at a spa on saturday to get me time. I am a stay at home mom & quite often I work in the childrens church & rarly get into service so this will be a nice time :)

Posted by:Amy | 5/19/2011 | 1:03 PM |
I never use to make time for "me time". Two years ago I decided that I needed to have a little "me time" at least twice a week to unwind. On Monday I attend a bootcamp class and on Thursday night I attend a kickboxing class. It is a great way to unwind and I feel fantastic after class. I feel like a brand new person. My kids also appreciate me a lot more when I get home.

Posted by:Francie | 5/19/2011 | 12:42 PM |
My mommy time is exercising. I put a video on for my toddler while the 4 month old sleeps and get my exercise that way. Still trying to lose some baby weight.

Posted by:Miranda | 5/19/2011 | 12:41 PM |
Once a week my husband watches the 3 boys so that I can go grocery shopping and take my time. I also get to have a massage once a month.

Posted by:Dasha | 5/19/2011 | 12:21 PM |
My mommy time is during naps! I get on the computer or watch TV and just unwind (and now that I'm expecting #2, I try to nap too! :)).

Posted by:kathy | 5/19/2011 | 12:17 PM |
I think all mothers should find a little time each day just for themselves, so they can re-energize themselves. I think this gives us more patience with our children.

Posted by:Chrissy P | 5/19/2011 | 12:10 PM |
I agree with this article 100%! I don't always leave the house for my "me" time, though. My supportive husband usually does our daughter's bath and bedtime routine to give me a break after loving on her all day. Lately, I've been enjoying this time in a leisurely bubble bath. Sometimes I head out for dinner with friends or a quiet stroll through the neighborhood, but any form of "me" time is enjoyed and appreciated!

Posted by:Rebecca L | 5/19/2011 | 12:08 PM |
I don't known when the last time I took time out for myself. As I type this I have little ones at my side tugging on me. Somithing I know I need to do.

Posted by:Marijean | 5/19/2011 | 12:07 PM |
I make sure I have dinner with my girlfriends once a month, and also make time for my husband and I to go out alone :)

Posted by:Natalia | 5/19/2011 | 12:01 PM |
I have not taken time for myself for 11 months now! No need to say how badly I need a hair cut:) My mom is coming to help out for a month and a half so, and I plan on starting to get away here and there and then maybe, my husband will take the challenge and let me have more Me time:)

Posted by:Shawna Hofmann | 5/19/2011 | 12:01 PM |
Mommy time??? That is something I don't get often since I stay at home while my hubby works long hours however when I get a moment where the kids are doing what they are supposed to we all go out to eat. It may not seem like much but its one evening where I don't have to cook and then clean up afterwards. Also we drive out to the park in the evening time when all the deer start coming out and just enjoy the quiet and watch.

Posted by:Shanett J. | 5/19/2011 | 11:56 AM |
I have not had much of ME time in a LONNNGGGGGGGG time. So this post encouraged me to go ahead and take some "ME" time. Before having a baby I used to read 3-4 books a month. I have not had the time to read just 1 book in over a year :(. I have been holding on to this book for almost a year from my fav author. I read for 30 min + 1 hour! It felt sooooooooo great!!!! Now I try to read at least 20 min a nite, and let me tell you this book is oh so good and I feel a little bit like myself again! Thanks for the challenge!

Posted by:rebeca rodriguez | 5/19/2011 | 11:56 AM |
i think its very important for us mom's to have a time for ourself at least 30mins every day or every other day 1hr.. cause when that doesnt happen than we start getting frustarated & we begin to take our anger on our kids or husband's.... i try to go out with my friend to just take a walk & i dont take my kids.. i have 3boys an 8year old,7year old & a 7month old.

Posted by:Sandra | 5/19/2011 | 11:52 AM |
It's very hard to leave my daughter with my husband, but expecting our second child has made me more aware how important "mommy time" is. I love having a group of other moms where we can have a fun, relaxing adult time.

Posted by:Elizabeth Braun | 5/19/2011 | 11:52 AM |
Me time is very important at my house. Wether its just going upstairs and hiding out in my room for awhile or going to get my nails done I take the time once a week. I have three kids that require alot of my time between activities and helping them with school work and I am expecting my fourth so it can be very draining.

Posted by:Debra Lowrey | 5/19/2011 | 11:18 AM |
I really don't have much time just for me so I kind of make time even when I am with the kids. Bath time is my "me time" too while they are soaking and playing I soak my feet and give myself a little pedicure. Its a win for all of us they get clean and my poor toes get a much needed soak and some TLC.

Posted by:Lena | 5/19/2011 | 6:38 AM |
I don't have much "mommy time" but when I do, I like to just relax by reading a magazine or taking a hot bubble bath!

Posted by:Melissa O. | 5/18/2011 | 10:59 PM |
I don't think I've had any "me" time in 4 years but this Friday I am actually going out for a girls night with some girls from work. Mexican food and margaritas! I'm excited and nervous!

Posted by:Faith | 5/18/2011 | 7:21 PM |
As you know my mommy time consists of helping with military infant and newborn children nonprofits. That's my way of giving my self a break from the monotony of day to day events.

Posted by:Paula w | 5/18/2011 | 7:14 PM |
All moms deserve "mommy time" because it makes us better mommys. Sometimes we just need a little time to regroup and relax so that when we get back to mommy land, we are refreshed and ready to go. This "mommy time" definitely helps make me a better mommy.

Posted by:kim darden | 5/18/2011 | 4:06 PM |
Looks like a great product

Posted by:Suzie | 5/18/2011 | 2:08 PM |
Well, I haven't quite figured out what ME time is yet but I am making plans for ME time. Prior to baby I did a lot of sailboat racing so this summer I have a couple events on my calendar that I am shooting to sail in. One event is a two day and another is a 6 day. Lots of ME time but I will be coming back each day to my baby and my wonderful husband who will be watching him.

Posted by:Gina | 5/18/2011 | 11:25 AM |
As a mother of 4 (all under 8 including 3 year old twins), Mom time is hard to come by. However, since my girlfriend and I have started going to the gym, that has become 'mom time' in all sense of the word. It gives me time to myself and in turn also helps me feel better about myself. Both things help me be a BETTER Mom!

Posted by:Marilu | 5/18/2011 | 11:20 AM |
My daughter Ashley is PG with her 2nd baby, she is wheelchair bound and could relly use something like this for the baby.. Thank you for the chance to win it!!.

Posted by:Paula M-B | 5/17/2011 | 10:59 PM |
My preschool mommy friends and I have coffee together every Monday while the kids are in school. There's a group of about 6 of us that do this little get together every week! So nice to get a little mommy time -- it's nice to have women to talk to that completely understand where you're at. We're not completely kid free as all of us bring our youngest kids with us but at least the preschool kids that talk so much are gone:) Can't wait til next weeks Monday coffee!!

Posted by:Alexis G | 5/17/2011 | 9:51 PM |
I'm due in September and I'm hoping getting a little "Me" time won't be too difficult. My husband has been great thus far, and I have tried to stay off his back while he's enjoying his last months not being a dad. I'm hoping he remembers his trips to the bars, friends houses, baseball games, etc, when our child is screaming his head off and I just need a night to escape! My mom time might be as simple a trip to the bookstore for some peace and quiet with a cappuccino and a comfy chair.

Posted by:Michelle | 5/17/2011 | 9:27 PM |
It's been two years since our first was born and my husband and I have yet to leave the babies with a sitter. I guess we feel we don't have anyone we really trust. How do you find a sitter that you're REALLY comfortable with?

Posted by:Amanda Bosley | 5/17/2011 | 8:45 PM |
I have two beautiful girls 5 and 2 and on April 13th 2011 gave birth to my handsome little prince. It was a very difficult pregnancy with him with pre-e and hypertension and have made the decision that he is it. I am sad about it but grateful I have a rounded family. With his birth so recent the only time I take right now for myself is going to bed very early and giving daddy and son time together while I get some well needed sleep. Which I am fine with at this point. I am fortunate enough to only have to work two days a week (after maternity leave of course) that I feel that is my time away from the kiddies. With my son being my last baby and my girls growing up before my eyes, I don't want to spend a minute away from them. A few weeks down the road when my son is a bit older and not so so new I will enjoy a message here and there, a pedi/manicure or something that I plain enjoy or a date night with my man.

Posted by:Sarah Ridley | 5/17/2011 | 5:55 PM |
Sometimes i like to take a moment for myself and do some writing or painting (hobbies of mine) i find this helps me to unwind and release my creativeness and helps me be a better mum to my son, we're both a lot happier when we're stress free! :)

Posted by:Laura Andry | 5/17/2011 | 5:18 PM |
My mom time is going to start happening after my birthday this weekend. My birthday is this Sunday and I am getting a bicycle for my birthday. I just gave birth to my son six weeks ago, so I will be getting cleared for exercise by my doctor this week as well. My mom time is going to be going on bike rides. Just me and my mp3 player singing loudly and getting funny looks from people I pass on the trail. I am very much looking forward to this mommy me time.

Posted by:Angela Arno | 5/17/2011 | 5:04 PM |
Mommy time is one of the KEYS to being a good Mommy! My husband is thankfully of the same mind, so every week or two I either meet the ladies for a glass of wine (or next week we're going to see Bridesmaids!), get a pedicure or a massage... just a few hours to recharge my batteries and return to the family relaxed and ready for more "mom-ing".

Posted by:Meagan Fischer | 5/17/2011 | 4:36 PM |
Sometimes I just go hide in the bathroom for a half an hour when my husband's home. Read a little or play a game on my phone. As a mother of three who home schools, "me time" is almost a myth.

Posted by:Sharon | 5/17/2011 | 4:26 PM |
sometimes for a break, i like to take some alone time and catch up on some reading with a glass of wine. baking makes me feel good too. cookies just for mommy is fabulous. the selfishness of not sharing gives me a little me time.

Posted by:mechele johnson | 5/17/2011 | 2:49 PM |
For my mommy time, I utilize my baby's afternoon nap to do nothing but what I want! I usually sit at the computer with a cup of coffee or lunch and writ to my friends on Facebook, enter a couple giveaways, research something, etc. Since the other nap is for me to do the cleaning, this time is well appreciated!

Posted by:Solducky | 5/17/2011 | 1:37 PM |
A little time for oneself definitely helps. It doesn't have to be a big thing - sometimes just some time spent by myself reading in the evening after my kid is in bed helps me recharge. Other times - an hour or two shopping by myself does the trick!

Posted by:chelesa | 5/17/2011 | 11:35 AM |
I Completely Agree As Mothers Or parents For That Matter . It Is Important That We Find Time For Ourselves

Posted by:Sara R. | 5/17/2011 | 11:13 AM |
I totally agree with having a little "ME" time. It really is hard to be able to set aside a few hours for just "you", but it really does make a difference and helps me to be a better Mom. I don't go out very often, but when I do I feel like my batteries are recharged a bit.

Posted by:Terri P. | 5/17/2011 | 10:50 AM |
As a single mom, I can relate to how hard it is yet how important to find time for yourself. My strategy was to wait until the baby was asleep and then either read (which always relaxes me) or do crossword puzzles until my mind was de-stressed. Then I'd feel refreshed.

Posted by:Hope Holland | 5/17/2011 | 9:06 AM |
I am a single mother so unfortunatly I have very little Help being a mom I always get up 1 hour early to drink my coffee and watch God's Glorious sunrise .... it keeps me sane :)

Posted by:Ashley Smith | 5/17/2011 | 6:51 AM |
My husband is great about giving me some time when I need it. I ride my bike to the park and spend some time breathing in the fresh air and riding around before riding to a local cafe for a hot or iced tea and then returning home. It might not seem like much, but I wouldn't want to spend anymore time than that away from my family. Being a mom is a privilege not a job. And the only reason I take those few hours away is to get some fresh air and clear my mind, so I can come up with ways to be better in my life as a mom, wife, and daughter.

Posted by:Athena | 5/17/2011 | 6:27 AM |
It's hard to have some "me time". I love it when I have those days when the kids are in bed and you just hear 'silence', it's the best time to just curlup with a book and enjoy the moment.

Posted by:NewlyCrunchyMamaOf3 | 5/17/2011 | 3:29 AM |
With 2 babies under 2, I never really get me time. I wish I did, though! I'd take a nice hot bath, read a good book, and just relax!

Posted by:Christina Brundick | 5/17/2011 | 2:28 AM |
I try to make time for me,but its hard with a newborn and 10 yr old. When I can get a babysitter I would go out with friends for a bite and shopping.

Posted by:Tonya | 5/17/2011 | 1:17 AM |
When my husband gets home I ask him to watch the boys for an hour. I usually take a nice hot bath or take a quick nap. Having "me" time is important, so you don't go crazy especially if your a stay at home mom and all conversation you have had that day was with a 4 year old and a 10 month old.

Posted by:Ashley Sumners | 5/16/2011 | 11:24 PM |
I enjoy just lying on the couch and watching a little TV by myself after my son goes to bed. Nothing fancy, but it relaxes me.

Posted by:perla | 5/16/2011 | 10:34 PM |
All moms deserve a little "mommy time"to be able to pamper her self and have some me time so in turn she can be an even more attentive and avoid the post partum depression that follows having a child.this really works.

Posted by:Samantha | 5/16/2011 | 9:28 PM |
I totally agree! For so long i felt like i had no time to myself. I was a SAHM and my life revolved around cooking, cooking, cleaning, baby, husband. I had to start working to help make ends meet, which for a while was hard. I think my seperation anxiety was worse than my daughters. But it helped me realize that i really do need time to myself. My husband is great about it too! Whether it be going and getting drinks with friends or some baby free shopping, i always come home with a clear head and much more relaxed. To all you mommies out there that think you can't have me time, find a way, you'll be a better mommy for it =)

Posted by:Jacqueline | 5/16/2011 | 9:02 PM |
As a SAHM to two babies, 18 months apart, this is next to impossible. I have learned to relish in my grocery trips and my drive thru coffee runs (even if there are kids in the back).

Posted by:Leah Walker | 5/16/2011 | 7:11 PM |
I need to do this for myself. My oldest is 15 and I still don't take time for me. It sounds like you have plenty of support and things worked out. That's amazing.

Posted by:Erin Neilson | 5/16/2011 | 7:05 PM |
I think Mommy time is uber important! I am so appreciative to my hubs when I am able to get out with my girlfriends for some "girly time" or even a trip to the grocery store sans kids can be special! And, of course, busy moms are so deserving of a good mani/pedi!!!

Posted by:Laurie | 5/16/2011 | 6:12 PM |
When my son was first born I worked full time and really didn't take much time for myself. I didn't want to as I wanted to spend all my free time with him. Now he is in preschool and I am pregnant with my second. I realize now how important it is to have some "me" time, even if it's just simply having a quiet cup of coffee or reading a book.

Posted by:Danielle K | 5/16/2011 | 4:36 PM |
I try to take me time everyday with a good book and reading for 30 minutes or so. It's a great way for me to relax and not focus on everything going on in my life.

Posted by:amy pugmire | 5/16/2011 | 3:09 PM |
I try to make time for "me time" but its so hard. My husband is in sales and works late hours and my parents both work. When I finally get a chance to relax I love pedicures. I also love to spend about an hour by myself after the kids fall asleep just watching tv.

Posted by:Stephanie Mago-Eagle | 5/16/2011 | 2:06 PM |
I lost my husband July 12,2010 when our baby was 2 weeks old.I need mommy time to be able to grieve & to re energize,relax & to be here for the baby I am the only parent she has left

Posted by:Danielle | 5/16/2011 | 1:39 PM |
Definitely all the mothers in the entire universe need a little time "
among these are leaving to eat sometimes with our husband, family and friends, practicing some sport, play any game, go to the beauty salon to get nice, go to the spa to relax a little, read whenever possible any good booksee a good program or a good movie on the television or go to the cinema, in the end are so many small moments that we deserve that all mothers hopefully succeed to do it from time to time... now I if I do, so good luck to you too!

Posted by:nidya | 5/16/2011 | 1:31 PM |
I personally enjoy my time more small the most pleasant possible....
so each output anywhere with those around me and I want to enjoy them to the fullest, then overloaded and filled with much energy to enjoy now, but next to my beautiful children ;)

Posted by:sophie | 5/16/2011 | 1:06 PM |
the best time for my mama, is sharing moments of play, and fun to enjoy every moment of tranquility and happiness with my son, next to the...
Although course also I like to have my time to read a good book, see a good movie, give me a good bubble bath...Lol!

Posted by:Elizabeth G. | 5/16/2011 | 12:58 PM |
I have a hard time making me time because I feel bad whenever I leave my daughter, especially when it's not to go to work so I make my "me" time while she takes naps by reading a few blogs or sewing! :-)

Posted by:Jennifer H | 5/16/2011 | 12:54 PM |
Oh yea, I feel the "me time" guilt for sure! I just recently had our 2nd son and I felt very guilty for several weeks that I was not able to spend the quality time w/our older son due to the baby needing so much attention. Then if I were to leave to go anywhere and not take the boys I felt even worse! I agree, "Me time" is definitely important and everyone deserves a break now and then. Taking a little time for ourselves is priority and only helps us to take better care of our families.

Posted by:ColleenMarie82 | 5/16/2011 | 12:48 PM |
I always feel guilty, especially if I go away for a weekend with friends from church. I also work full-time and have 2 young kids it makes me sad to know that someone might know them better then I do.

Posted by:Heidi Daily | 5/16/2011 | 12:30 PM |
I know that mommy time is important, but I have such a hard time leaving my daughter, and I'm a stay at home mom, so I spend lots of time with her. My daughter just turned 1 at the end of April and there have only been a handfull of times that I have been away from her, and never more than 3 hours. I am trying to take more time for me, because I know when I don't I get so exhausted, I love to just take time to go for a walk and spend some time outside (which I also like to do with my daughter)

Posted by:Morgan Detvay | 5/16/2011 | 12:28 PM |
As a mother of 3 with a 4th on the way, it is extremely difficult to get any type of ME time. About a year ago, I made it mandatory that I have one day a month to rejuvenate myself. I don't mean 1-2 hours, that's just a breather. I would have one day where I get up, get dressed, get a pedicure, maybe a hair cut, go buy myself a new pair of shoes or new purse, have lunch with girlfriends, see a matinee and then have dinner with my parents or sisters. It might sound like a busy day but just being able to actually LOOK at stuff in the store without loosing a kid, chasing a rolling bottle or stopping for a diaper change is extremely relaxing. Also to enjoy a meal and have adult conversations prepares you for another of month of hard "mommy" work.

Posted by:daniel | 5/16/2011 | 12:27 PM |
as a parent the best time you can give to my wife so she relax and rest is to help you in the work of the House, in addition to help with the children, and finally invite you to get to share a time alone, and also that she go to have fun with her friends to the mall and other things for example...

Posted by:Lindsey Grimes | 5/16/2011 | 12:21 PM |
I hear you girl! Mommy time is super important. You don't really know how important until you're not getting enough of it! lol

Posted by:shelly | 5/16/2011 | 12:16 PM |
I agree. It is hard to find mom time, but if you don't, you can't be as good of a mom.

Posted by:Whitney | 5/16/2011 | 12:04 PM |
Time for myself is something desperately needed as a SAHM. I like to take bubble baths & catch up on reading blogs for my "me" time!

Posted by:Dave | 5/16/2011 | 12:02 PM |
I try to give my wife some "mommy time" by cooking and/or cleaning when I get home so that she can relax for a little while! :)